Have you ever seen some weird looking fat guy with a stunning hot chick?
Or maybe you were
walking down the street on your lunch break and see the most beautiful
girl you’ve ever seen before…But you don’t think you have what it takes
to attract a girl of this caliber.
(Dont be these guys)
Wouldn’t it be amazing if you could attract this type of girl?
Well guess what…YOU CAN.
For most guys this is a fantasy and think it takes a certain “skill” or “technique” to get these types of girls.
“How to become attractive” to the opposite sex is probably one of the
BIGGEST questions asked by men AND women. Since guys usually think with
their cocks, this question plagues more guys than women. In “modern”
society the women are the choosers, and this puts unneccessary stress on
most guys to attract and bed beautiful quality women.
Well this is complete BULLSHIT.
There isn’t a book or guide that you can read that will tell you the
EXACT one way to become more attractive to women. Sure, there are books
and websites that claim to have the “magic” pill to becoming more
attractive.
But the truth is there are only QUALITIES and BEHAVIORS
that are known to be the most attractive to women and that naturals
(guys who are naturally good with women and get laid) have that gets
them laid.
Will adopting these behaviors guarantee you will bang every girl you make eye contact with? NO.
All you can do is optimize
yourself to be able to make the most of each situation with a girl you
approach either through cold approach or through a social circle.
So today I will be discussing the top qualities and behaviors MYSELF and
other naturals (Tyler, Julien, Eg.) have adopted and developed into our
core personality.
NOTE: Before you read this article and get to technical or in your head..I advise you check out this video by Julien on attraction:
Top Qualities and Behaviors of Attractive Naturals – Becoming the guy EVERYONE wants to meet
1. Unshakable Confidence / Solid Beliefs
Confidence is probably the number one attractive quality that will roll
of ANY girls tongue if you ask her what attracts her. When someone says
confidence you may think this is being a arrogant asshole who only cares
about himself.
No, being more confident with women means:
1) having the balls to approach her and know it really isn’t a big deal.
2) Literally not giving a shit about the interaction you are having with the girl.
3) Not being afraid to lose her.
4) Believe in yourself.
5) You don’t need permission to do something you want. Dont be a permission boy.
6) You go after what you want in life.
2. Being Fun / Funny
Nothing opens a women’s heart better than a making her laugh or giggle. One of my best approaches to being funny is: “Cocky Comedy”.
Check out this video for some examples:
Cocky comedy is the type of humor that makes a girl go ‘I can’t believe
you just said that!” and taps you playfully on the shoulder. If you are a
fan of a show called californication, you’ll notice Hank Moody is the
king of Cocky comedy.
When I first started using cocky comedy I would take it too far
sometimes. So learn to balance it by not taking it to far. You want to
say things that are humorous while pushing the boundaries of being
offensive but not TOO offensive or over the line.
Ultimately you wont to be the center of the fun. Be the party. Learn to
let go. Dance, dont give a shit, and have a blast, give positive
emotions instead of taking them. People(women) will love you for it.
3. Be a Teaser
Teasing doesn’t mean poking fun of some one’s body fat or being slightly
obese. What I mean is teasing in an emotionally and physical way that
builds positive responses.
Teasing a women in a “Cocky comedy” way can start some great vibing. For
example, everytime a girl tells me she likes something I am doing…ill
STOP. This builds a playful vibe of her chasing me to give her more of
those positive emotions and me teasing her.
Get it? This could be related to “Push pull” depending on how you use it. It can be very powerful though.
Be careful, their is a such thing as over doing it. Don't tease to much.
You can get a feel for when it is a good time to tease and when its a
good time not to.
4. Be Authentic, Real, Honest, And CLEAR IN YOUR INTENTIONS
This is a BIG one. Women can smell a fake from a mile away. They are THE BEST bullshit detectors. Trust me on this.
Women love a guy who is clear in what he wants and is authentic.
For example, you are on a date
with a girl and you want to kiss her. Most average guys will just “try
to play it cool” in fear that they will lose the girl. Instead of being
clear in their intentions, letting the girl know he wants her and making
out with her.
Be authentic. If a girl asks you
if she you like her shoes and deep down you really think they are
ugly…Be authentic. Don’t be an asshole. But let her know they are okay
but you don’t care for them to much. This is what I mean by be
authentic…Women hate a guy who tries to kiss ass to win her over. Trust me, it doesn’t work. It will land you in the friend zone and alone at home jizzing on your keyboard.
Most guys act in a way that show they are ASHAMED of their desires.
Don’t be this guy, EMBRACE your DESIRES. Don’t try to hide them in fear
it will cause you humiliation or losing the girl...
Trust me, you will gain more respect and women by being CONGRUENT and EXPRESIVE IN YOUR DESIRES.
Here is a good video where tyler talks about being congruent and authentic:
And Another
5. Set Bounderies / Dont Take Shit
In other words…Don’t take shit from a girl. Or don’t put up with a girls bull shit in general.
Set boundaries for yourself. For example, if a girl is trying to make
you chase her beyond what you are willing to. Let her know, you are not a
chaser and you are not going to chase her all night. Then roll out if
she doesnt comply.
Dont be a ass kisser. This will get you no where...With women or in life.
In other words respect yourself, and don’t accept behaviors or people who are below your standards.
6. Engage a womens Emotions and Body…NOT HER MIND.
In reality women don’t know what they want and what really gets their
panties soaking wet. All they know is when they meet a guy that makes it
happen…It HAPPENS.
In a women’s logical mind, if someone asked her would she sleep with a
guy only knowing him for a few hours…she would more than likely say no.
If this same girls meet a guy with all the qualities above, and he
embraces her body, her emotions, escalates, touches her, and they are
vibing…she is likely to go home with this guy. Regardless of what her
logical mind says.
When dealing with womenNEVERembrace their logical or mind.
If you ask women, they will tell you this will work, but trust me. It WILL NOT GET YOU LAID.
Don’t be afraid to touch a women, kiss her when you feel its time and
her body is telling you, escalate, look her in the eyes, and ultimately
pull her. DONT BE AFRAID TO ESCALATE.
Be Alpha.
Like I said, there are many ways of becoming more attractive to women.
But these are the main qualities of mine and elite players in the game.
